My Wife Raped
This event took place on 12 Jan 2011 I cant even begin to understand her grief now, but I know I need to be there for her. As far as her story goes she was going to the gym with her work out buddy (this is the person that raped her) on the way to the gym he stopped at his apartment said he had to grab something and my wife went in with him. While inside he locked the door and began to rip off her clothes. While he was raping her he began to like it more and more as she fought him off and screamed for me. He was not able to climax I believe. However my wife refuses to fill out any police paper work and will only talk to her councilors. She was already on medication for manic depression and dealing with childhood issues of being raped by her uncle.
Here is where I come in. I am a U.S. soldier deployed to Iraq and I just found out today 03 Feb 2011 this happened. My whole world has been flipped upside down. I turned in all weapons and ammo and haven't slept in two days. I've talked to my chaplains and chain of command.
I feel I have a buddy here to help me but right now I feel ive gotten past most suicidal homicidal thoughts. But one things that is hitting me the hardest is I can't look at my wife. I'm still deployed so we use yahoo or skype and every time she sends an invite im just terrified to accept. what should I do to get myself straight so I can support my wife?