My wonderful, beautiful husband crossed over, Wednesday morning.

by Deborah White
(Zachary, Louisiana)

Jim was tired. His body was dwindling. I could see it. He would have turned 80, September 1st. I wanted him to live to be 100. I told him so many times. When my mother passed over last December, Jim was my strength. His love was power to me. I loved and adored my husband with every fiber of my being. I am having a private service this Saturday. Jim wanted his ashed scattered up at the pond he dug himself more than 25 years ago. I am so grateful I will be able to sit beneath the oak and feel his presence anytime of the day or night. Mother's ashes are there also. I am blessed. Oh, my darling, I love you with all my heart and soul. Thank you for loving me and for taking such wonderful care of me and for sharing your earthly life with me. I will never get over you. I will bless your name every day of the rest of my life here on earth. I know we will be together again. I know this is absolutely true. Help me with your strength to get through this weekend. I feel weak. I need your abiding love. i feel your love. Darling, I love you with all my heart.

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Jan 18, 2013
My love!
by: Anonymous

I to had such a love and we knew it the second we saw each other. He so badly wanted to turn 70. He passed away on my birthday 2012 in my arms. But I to will bless him everyday for his love and the care he gave to me. Cindy

Jun 24, 2012
My wonderful ,beautiful husband
by: Liane from Ontario, Canada

Dear Mrs. White,

I was very touched by the beautiful tribute you wrote about your husband. How wonderful that you shared so rich a love! You must be heartbroken.

I too have lost the love of my life but on Christmas Eve. He was only 68 and so much to live for. We had many plans. He was so brave in his battle to survive lymphoma and suffered so much. I know he loved me with all his heart and did not want to leave me. It is very hard to cope with the most devastating loss of our lives without the support we always had from our husbands. I love him very much and I believe my Wayne is watching over me. I am blessed with a wonderful son and daughter and that gives me strength to go on.

Your loss is so recent. I know the love in your heart will give you strength as you continue on this journey.

You are in my thoughts and prayers,


Jun 23, 2012
Dear Mrs. White
by: Nancy

I read your story and my heart aches. It is so precious to be a part of such a love story. To have had a love like that and to know in your heart that it is to continue in the future is such a beautiful thing for those of us who not had that kind of love is such an amazing thing to witness. I know that your loving husband will uphold you this weekend and any time you call out to him. I am sorry that he did not live to 100 but he will be with you in spirit so be strong...and live on...NANCY

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