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Nursing HOME Nightmares and Negligent Hospitals.....

by Deborrah Ann Stenberg
(Billings, Montana)

THIS POEM---STORY IS VERY GRAPHIC AND INTENSE...THIS IS FROM MY OWN PERONAL EXPERIENCES AND THOROUGH LITERATURE I'VE BEEN RESEARCHING FOR MONTHS. IF ANY VIEWERS FEEL THREATENED PLEASE GIVE ME A CALL AND I'LL BE MORE THAN HAPPY TO EXPLAIN EACH REASON FOR POSTING THIS.
SEVENTY---THREE TRUTHFUL REASONS.....



Nursing Home Nightmares and Negligent Hospitals: Our Loved Ones Are Everyday Victims----everyday----repetitive victims.

The stench in the halls which leads to each room indicates an obvious corruption and the walls are always leaking with poison.

All the upsetting pictures I've repeatedly seen sadly explain the covered up transgressions. No one completely understands these reflections. The residents tears and fears are so many reasons to save them. Convicts in prison get better care and opportunities than our Elderly in nursing home facilities. Concentration camps are fitting descriptions.

Continual screeching voices, abuse, neglect, and such obvious pain, are quite damaging to these kidnapped bodies of destruction. Will our loved ones ever see happiness or freedom?

Repetitive Abuse, neglect, pain, slapping, biting, pinching, forcefully hitting, etc, etc, etc, etc,
etc, etc, etc, etc, etc, all of these and so much more unfortunately summarizes each wrongful-----unnecessary death----which will continue forever and ever and ever God help us----and nothing will ever change-----as long as what????????????? As long as AMERICA ALLOWS IT.....

We need to vote for freedom, changes, and abolish the punishments. Body bags are zipping too quickly. If this was someone you loved placed in one of those bags----how would you feel about that wrongful death which happened from every disaster?

Think about when each of us are old and alone, where do you think we'll be living? We'll probably be residing---barely living and unfortunately existing within the walls of poison and the dungeons of H---unless we're willing to change things...

“I'm proud to be an American”----This might be a truthful expression and one to be proud if America actually cared for our neglected families.....

NURSING HOME NIGHTMARES AND NEGLIGENT HOSPITALS.
NURSING HOME NIGHTMARES AND NEGLIGENT HOSPITALS
NURSING HOME NIGHTMARES AND NEGLIGENT HOSPITALS
NURSING HOME NIGHTMARES AND NEGLIGENT HOSPITALS

WHAT PART OF THIS DISCUSSION ISN'T ENTIRELY UNDERSTOOD?
OUR FAMILIES ARE REPEATEDLY AND REPEATEDLY AND REPEATEDLY DAMAGED. LAST RESORT---THE BODY BAG----THE BODY BAG---HERE COMES THAT NURSING HOME-----HOSPITAL----BODY BAG------WHAT DOES THIS SAY ABOUT AMERICA???????????????? IT'S BEHAVIOR IS ACTUALLY QUITE NOTABLY FRIGHTENING--DISGUSTING AND NOTABLY FRIGHTENING---

START THINKING AND CARING ABOUT OUR FAMILIES BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE, OR THE BEGINNING WILL NEVER BE THE ENDING. THIS UNACCEPTABLE CRAP WILL GO ON AND ON AND ON. JUST LIKE THE NEIGHBORS DOG WHO RELEASES IT'S CRAP---IT JUST GOES ON AND ON AND ON AND THE STENCH STILL EXISTS JUST LIKE THE OTHERS.

NURSING HOME----HOSPITAL CRAP------WILL LIVE FOREVER AND EVER AND EVER GOD HELP US AS LONG AS WE ALLOW THIS TO CONTINUALLY TAKE OVER......

LOOK AT NURSING HOME PICTURES ON THE INTERNET.
PAY ATTENTION TO OUR FAMILIES FEARS, ABUSE, NEGLECT, AND EVERYDAY FRIGHTENED BEHAVIOR AND PAIN.....DON'T ALLOW THIS TO REPEATEDLY TAKE OVER. THESE ARE PEOPLE YOU'VE LOVED WHO ARE CONTINUALLY DAMAGED, DESTROYED, GIVEN UP ON-----THEN THEY DIE. KILLING IS SUCH A HORRIBLE YET TRUTHFUL DESCRIPTION. THIS WILL KEEP HAPPENING AS LONG AS WE ALLOW IT. DAMAGE---DESTROY--KILLING---WRONGFUL DEATH....

I'M AN AMERICAN----AND I'M EVEN DISAPPOINTED IN MYSELF.
PLEASE HELP ME TO CHANGE OR IMPROVE THINGS..

TO IMPROVE--------WE NEED TO CHANGE------
WHAT'S HAPPENING RIGHT NOW ISN'T CHANGING OR
IMPROVING.......

THE GOVERNMENT RULES.....THE NURSING HOMES AND HOSPITALS KISS THE GOVERNMENTS BUTTS AND THE EVERYDAY PEOPLE SUFFER EACH DAY BECAUSE AS AMERICANS WE'RE TOO THREATENED TO GET INVOLVED FOR EVERYDAY REASONS. THOSE EVERYDAY REASONS ARE HURTING OUR LOVED ONES.

AS ABOVE AND TO REPEAT MYSELF ONCE AGAIN----TO IMPROVE---WE NEED TO CHANGE-----WHAT'S HAPPENING RIGHT NOW ISN'T CHANGING OR IMPROVING.

THINK ABOUT ALL THE THINGS YOU NEED FOR IMPROVEMENT. BEING EFFICIENT IS MUCH BETTER THAN TOO LATE. THAT MUCH TOO LATE COULD BE AN EXAMPLE OF YOUR LOVED ONES. I LOST MY MOTHER BECAUSE OF A HORRIBLE--------WRONGFUL DEATH AND EACH DAY FROM APRIL 17TH, 2011 I CONTINUALLY SUFFER HER ABSENCE.

OUR LIVES ARE CAUGHT IN SUCH AN UGLY TRAP. DON'T ALLOW THIS TO CONTINUE FOR OTHERS....

I WOULD BE MORE THAN HAPPY TO SPEAK WITH OTHERS WHO ARE SUFFERING......CELL PHONE---406-861-7392

THIS POEM----STORY WAS WRITTEN BY DEBORRAH ANN STENBERG
I AM THE COMPLETE LIVING PROOF OF NURSING HOME NIGHTMARES AND NEGLIGENT HOSPITALS......PLEASE UNDERSTAND MY TEARS AND FRUSTRATIONS. MY MOTHER WAS A BREATHTAKING WOMAN.

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Nursing Homes
by: Judith in California

Deb, this isn't so much a poem but rather a lamenting of the anguish and frustration . My late husband was in a nursing home (Skilled Nursing Facility) a rose by any other name. I saw a lot of neglect and he was a victim of it. I was his best advocate and was by his side until bedtime. His roommate died after a strenuous Physical Therapy treatment. I then brought him home. I left a note in the pocket of the deceased's jacket for his family saying what had happened.
I swore he would never be placed in one of those again. I cared for him even tho it took a toll on me both mentally and physically. He passed a year ago within the confines of our lovely home being loved until the very end.
Everyone should know that if their loved one is placed in a home to please go visit often during the day and night to get a true picture of what is going on and listen to their loved one AND BELIEVE THEM WHEN THEY COMPLAIN AND TAKE ACTION TO FIX THE PROBLEM AND CALL THE OMBUSMAN OF THEIR FACILITY AND PUT IN A FORMAL COMPLAINT. THEY ,BY LAW, HAVE TO RESPOND.

I'm sorry for your loss.

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