oh my god...now it is the holiday season!!!

by John
(Stow, ohio)

My wife passed away suddenly on july 24th of this year...I have three beautiful girls who miss her very much!!!...I do not know how I am going to make it through the holidays because Denise and I would have so much fun during this time!!!...now I am by myself!!!...It hurts sooo bad...I miss her more now than yesterday...she was my life...and now I just want her back!!!! Well, I hope that this pain will ease sometime...Please god...help me to carry on for my girls....and Denise...I will always love you...until I see you again...Your loving husband....John

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Dec 19, 2011
Tis' The Season To Be Lonely.......
by: TrishJ

The firsts without our loved one is a difficult thing to get through. Christmas always brings all the memories of the great ones we shared with them. I don't have any desire to put up a tree but I do. My gifts are wrapped with no enthusiasm because it's what I should do. I sit and think about what things would be like (what would I be doing right now) if my husband were still here.
We do this to ourselves because of our beautiful memories and because we loved so hard.
Your girls need you. Imagine what they are going through. Young minds trying to understand and accept death is not easy. They miss their mom too.
Surround yourself with those people in your life who understand and support you. Try to make some new memories and traditions with your children. Do something new. It really warms you heart to reach out to those less fortunate (in your wife's memory).
God bless. Do your best. That's all anyone can expect.

Dec 18, 2011
Live for your children x
by: Anonymous

So sorry for the loss of ur dear wife. You will carry on ,because that is what she would you to do. Your girls will give u the reason to keepgoing. You will see her in each of them and slowly the happier memories will creep in. O f course you misss her it wouldnt be normal if u didnt! I pray thet God will give you the strength and courage to face the times ahead and help you to take one day at a time. I'm sure your beloved wife is with you, watching over you and evertime you speak to hear im sure she hears.God has a plan for each of us and though its very difficult to understand why things happen we know we will meet again in Gods own time .For now take comfort in your children and live each day for your wife .Take care .

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