Our twins and Momma

Christmas time this year, there was no tree or presents neatly wrapped underneath it.

Instead of celebrating our Saviors birth, we were grieving the loss of our 3 month old twins and my Momma.

We lost Mom two weeks after the twins.
I have a husband and a 13 year old daughter and our hearts are breaking.

My daughter is at the anger stage and is angry at God. She doesn't understand how He can allow such loss to happen in her young life.

My husband is in the isolation stage, hybernating in his cave for hours. We need his love and support right now, but this is how he is coping.

I am somewhere in the middle of anger & depression. I try to be Mom and Dad to our daughter and still be my husbands cheerleader .... I feel like I have tobe strong for them, but I am running on empty.

We have a strong faith in the Lord and know that healing will come in time. Until then, we are taking baby steps and praying that He will give us what we need to get through .

For all of you who are hurting, our thoughts and prayers are with you as well.

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Dec 05, 2011
I lost my twins too!
by: Susan Wade

I am really sorry to hear the loss of your mom and twins. I just lost my twin identical boys a week ago! I wrote on this grief blog myself to try and recover from our loss my husband and I share. I also have a son who is 6 years old going through this too. He is real upset and sad from the loss of his two brothers. It just breaks my heart that he has to go through this kind of loss at such a young age.I had my son with a previous relationship, so this was a big deal for my son and my husband. I feel for my husband because this was going to be his first babies.We have decided to try again in a year and a half for a baby or babies. I just really feel like in order for me to heal completely I need to replace our loss. If we don't get twins we are going to have another baby too. We decided we want two babies together. Plus we want to give my son some siblings. My twins were 7 months and a week old when they died. So one week ago today. I miss them sooo much as I am sure you miss your twins. The worst part for me was having to go through labor and delivery with my twins. I don't wish any woman to have to experience that kind of pain! It was so awful and scary. Well good luck to you and your family. I hope the best for you guys. Take care!!!!! :) I also wrote on this section of multiple losses, if you want to read mine. Just know I totally understand what your going through and your not alone.

w As for our twins

Jan 28, 2011
by: Kay

Ohh my goodness you have so much to deal with, I am so sorry for your huge loss. I too have a loss, my beautiful son just 8 months ago...so I can only imagine how you are feeling loosing your precious twins and your mum. I wish I lived closer to you. I would come talk to you. I wish you all the love and healing I can and just know you are in my thoughts. You seem to be a very special person..God bless you.xxx

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