Out at sea with no land in site...

by S. Hammett
(Orillia Ontario Canada)

Five years ago I lost my sister at52. This past 13 months ending in December 2011 I lost my Godmother, my mother, my father and now in December my husband. I feel like a boat out at sea in a storm. I cant see land and the boat is filling with water. Please someone tell me anything to make me feel better. Please dont tell me it is a process and it takes time. I am so sick of this and people asking how I am. How the frick do they think I am. what a stupid question.√Ć just want to scream.

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Apr 01, 2012
by: Roops

So sorry about your loss. And what I totally agree with is that one doesnot want these lame expressions by people that all will be alright. Well, in my case , it isn't. After all I have lost my loved ones and it's not like a cell phone or anything. Off late, I try n ignore them most of the times. Its my pain and very few people can understand what it means to b hurting so bad. But what annoys me the most is that when I m upset , they come and ask why ! I mean, if I am not upset, then u need to worry that there's something wrong with my head. So any normal human being is going to grieve. N I don't want to upset u further but things donot get to be the same. Our lives cannot be the same. People say slowly the pain becomes bearable. I feel slowly we mite just get used to this constant pain n loneliness. N sometimes I donot want it to go.coz somewhere I do feel guilty for not noticing that she's not well.I ll always regret that the cancer was detected in the last stage. N I blame myself coz I was closest to her. Anyways,do whatever let's u grieve in peace.try n meditate or do yoga. I donot but I knw people who have really benefitted ESP after a loss. Take care.

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