pat coomber

by pat coomber
(dunstable england)

i had two beautiful sons named mark and tony both died unexpectedly mark aged 37 just died in his sleep never had any illness that was in the year 2000 and tony died in 2003 aged 45 more or less the same way found out they had blocked arterys was such a shock to my husband and myself will never get over it but have to live on for the sake of our grandchildren and great grandchildren

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Feb 04, 2012
by: Vicki Rossman

My nephew died unexpectantly May of 2011, his heart just stopped. He lived 4000 miles away from all family. His parents had moved back to the lower 48 about 6 yrs ago and left there 2 sons in Anchorage. They had the memorial service for him up there and those of us back here in Michigan had no closure, and I am having a hard time letting go of the pain I feel.....not being able to say goodbye

Need to do something, just don't know what.

Oct 29, 2011
My heart goes out to you...
by: Vickie

Dear Pat, I just read your post and was so sorry to hear of your tragic losses. I lost my youngest daughter a couple yr's ago-she had just turned 26 and left behind a five yr. old little girl. I have endured the heart ache and as only you know... the pain we are left to live with- there are NO words to really even begin to describe...except living hell. Please know that you are im my prayers along with your husband. I can only offer the advice that helped me. Be there for those grandchildren...they NEED you. I know my granddaughter was one of the main reasons I didn't give up. I am sure your sons would not want to see their parents in such pain. God bless you. Vickie USA p.s. Remember this site is here to Help all of us through our losses.

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