Almost three years ago now I was noticing my wife of then 22 years acting strangely, closing a web page when I walked into the room and generally becoming more secretive, I am not particularly suspicious and I trusted her so I let it go. A few months later she was visiting her family in another town, I acted on an impulse to check her email which I would never do but because of the recent wierdness with her behavior, found one the first place I looked describing from a psycic that she should take it slow with " another guy" I was dumbfounded and blindsided. I then checked some of her texts with phone co and that was enough, Ive never done that before and dont want to ever be in that position again. I confronted her she sort of admitted it but said they were just friends but I had seen texts that suggested otherwise. Here was the woman I had been faithfull to for almost 30 years lying to me even after she knew I had seen the texts. We still stayed together for the next 2 1/2 years then she moved out with my help and support, but has never been real with me about what was going on. The other day she was going out of town again and had left me a Note on my counter describing her new relationship with someone in that same other town, A NOTE! I have not contacted her since as I dont really want to talk to her. She called today to ask about some issues that are on the table (family, taxes) and acted like nothing happened. What a class act.