"PURPOSE AND MEANING"

by betty fain
(maruion,nc)

those of us that are the ownership of being emotioally dead;we that our dealing with a great lose of some kind in our life's,it might be a loveone who has dead,or it might be a marriage ,or a beloved pet or the lose of themselvels in this world=we have a geart despair and hoplessness over our GRIEFit's like we died with them!then our desire's to commit to any one ever again;our familys and friends dont know what elus to do for us right? We tell ourselves that know one wants to hear it any more,and that we have fear that if we can't get out of this GRIEF THAT WE ARE INwe will lose our other familys and friends over it as well! Ya i understand that feeling I watch my family &friends around me and I think they see an unfamiliar person who has entered their home,i feel like a ship at sea with no one at the wheel being tossed by the storm of a life time. but there is good news to these ship's in the storms we do have a outlet ,the ones on this site and GOD- its going to be a hard raod to walk one day at a time and it will be painful but GOG knows our weaknesses and i am here too to help and others are here too! p.s i hope this helps!!!!!

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Jul 03, 2012
thank you
by: betty

THANK YOU FOR THE SWEET WORDS AND THE TIME TO HEAR ME,I THINK WE ALL DO NEED TO HELP OTHERS EVEN WHEN WE ARE IN PAIN!!!AND I HOPE TOO THAT YOU ARE DOING WELL FROM YOUR LOSE![ MY STORY HERE ON THIS SITE IS FROM THE DEATH OF SIBLINGS PAGE, THE NAME IS I LOSE MY BABY SISTER! TY AGAIN FROM BETTY

Jul 02, 2012
Purpose and Meaning
by: Doreen U.K.

Betty fain
What a lovely person you are to offer support to ohter's whilst you are hurting from a loss which you kept to yourself. Please feel free on this website to talk about you and your story and what life is like for you now. Only if you want to. You may decide to talk to God since you seem to know HIM. You are right. No one really understands grief until they have gone through the pain of loss. I expected my children to be here with me when I lost my husband their dad 7 weeks ago. But they have gone their own ways and I am left alone. Thank God I have 3 wonderful sisters, brother-in-laws, and a brother for support. I wouldn't have gone through this if I did not have support. Life without our loved ones is painful and hard and not everyone can understand this. We may have to distance ourselves from people who are not good for us when we are grieving. they are in the wrong place for us. But we are not in the wrong place. We have to do what we can to take care of ourselves even if this is to reach out to other people other than our families who don't understand where we are at in our grief. We also have another outlet which is to see a bereavement counsellor who know their field and know how to support anyone who is stuck in grief and cannot move beyond a point where they can progress in their grief. Best wishes.

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