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RIP My beloved Son Carl Dennis Banghart!!

by Benjamin
(Tucson)

RIP my beloved Son!!

RIP my beloved Son!!

My son, I remember when you came to me, and said goodbye, and hugged me, you were on your way to college in Hawaii. I never thought that I said my last goodbyes.

It was so devastating to me, to learn just by searching the web, that I came pass a obituary, that you had your calling May 21, 2009, and you were just short of becoming 24 yrs on May 22. I was never informed of your death by any family members.

I don't know why you left this world so quick. I would love to have closure on this so I can mourn your death, I put a memorial site on myspace: benjaminfbanghart55. Your in heaven now my son, the angels are rejoicing for you were a very special child, giving, friendly, people person, very talented in what you did, you loved sports, your loved the world.

I will always carry you in my heart, and love you, and remember my Carl!! RIP my son til we met in heaven someday.

Your father Benjamin F. Banghart.

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RIP My beloved Son Carl Dennis Banghart!!

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God Bless
by: Anonymous

God Bless you and your son. I cannot imagine the anguish you feel by finding out about your son's passing. That, for me, would be a most difficult "forgiveness" task, but one that must be accomplished for your own sake and no one else. I wish for you much peace throughout your grieving process and much joy when you find your conclusion to it all.

Although my story is not quite the same, it has a bit of familiarity in that I was not informed of my sister's passing at the time of her death, and I had to work that out inside of my heart, too. I found an awful lot of anger there, as I can only imagine you feel even more.

Please don't live with that inside of you. Your joyful life is worthy of so much more than the ignorance of others. And your Son's blessed memory is, too. Don't taint it with anger. Find someone, preferably a grief counselor who knows the ropes, to talk to about it. A professional can walk you through it and help you "sweep away the dirt", if you know what I mean.

Anyway, that's just a suggestion. I am truly sorry for your pain.

From one who's suffering to another ... God Bless you and yours.

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