Robert where are you?

by Robert's Ma

Is he in heaven? Did an all forgiving God let him in? I believe He did but is that faith or wishful thinking? Robert was in pain from two botched surgeries. Could no longer work or even walk around the block as he told me on the phone. He had worked at so many things from an early age and that was hard for him to take that he could no longer work. I was told his wife was seeking to divorce him, that he and his only son came to blows in an argument. It will be 2 yrs. on June 26 that he shot himself and ended all his pain and started mine. I know his life had become so terrible but what sent him over the edge that terrible day? Did his wife actually say she wanted a divorce? I need to know why (BESIDE THE PHYSICAL PAIN) he did that and where he is now. He was so handsome the most handsome of all my children his adult brothers and sister cry at the mere mention of his name. I have lost my will to live without my son. God, will You give me the peace of mind I asked you for so many times? Is he with you? Will we see him again?

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Aug 27, 2013
To Anonymous
by: Robert's Ma

I offer you condolences on the death of your beloved son and thank you for the reminder in John 3:18 of God's love. No one knows the pain like another mom that comes from losing a child! You will be in my prayers, dear friend. I need your prayers too as I have another son who, unless God intervenes, will be joining his brother in death as the drs. have given him a few mos. to live from the cancer that is spreading thru his body. Please remember him in prayer too. May God bless you and give you comfort and peace.

Aug 27, 2013
He is with Jesus- no worries!
by: Anonymous

I am so sorry for your loss. I too lost my son last year and my husband needed reassurance that our son was with our Lord as he died of a drug overdose. Our son also loved God and had been baptised as an adult same as Jesus had been by John. Trust God and remember God's word and the promises Jesus made! John 3:18!

May 04, 2013
From Robert's Ma
by: To Doreen

May God bless you for your comforting words. I so need to believe that he is with God thru his belief in Jesus. He was baptized as an adult because of that belief. May God help us all to accept what can not be changed. Please pray for us
as I will pray for you, Doreen.

May 03, 2013
Robert where are you?
by: Doreen U.K.

Robert's Ma. I am so sorry for your loss of your precious son to a sudden death. Your son reached his breaking point and couldn't go on in life anymore. He wouldn't have been able to process with clarity what his death would mean to his family. In his mind he was ending his misery. Often people are locked into misery and can find no way out. I had this experience. I reached the edge and found a Christian counsellor and my life was saved. I have reached desperation where I found it difficult to go on in life. Who knows? what happened to your son for him to end his misery by a bullet.
My nephew at 30yrs. of age threw himself in front of an express train 6yrs. ago. He called out for HELP! but no one came. My sister can't understand her loss and Why? was God so far away? So many questions and no answers.
You asked where your son is? Will God let him into heaven? "Is it wishful thinking? or Faith?

Your son is SAFE in the arms of God. The Bible says. The body goes back to the earth and becomes dust. The Spirit goes back to God. When Jesus comes back to earth all those safe in the arms of God will be resurrected with new bodies and God will put their Spirit (breath) back into their bodies and they will be RENEWED. All caught up in the air to meet their Saviour. Then those who remain on the earth will be caught up to meet Jesus in the air and then we will live and reign with God. This is not wishful thinking. It is God's Promise to those who BELIEVE. We have a CHOICE to believe this or not believe it. If we believe this then we go on and live with this BLESSED HOPE. of Salvation. Be assured and re-assured that you will see your son again.
I lost my husband of 44yrs. to cancer. My HOPE IS I will see my husband again. I can't WAIT. This is what keeps me going on each day. But some days are hard and I have to get hold of the strength of God for each new day. I Pray that God will wrap His loving arms around you and family and bring you Peace and Comfort in your sorrow and Loss of your son Robert.

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