Ron Serediuk - February 19, 1964 - April 9, 2012
In loving memory of my partner Ron Serediuk
February 19, 1964 - April 9, 2012
A message from my heart to your soul: Ron, you were and are the love of my life, my partner, my best friend, my loving companion. We can’t control our destiny. We have to accept it and do the best we can to cope. The fact is that we are all going to die. It is just how we cope with that fact and the trials and tribulations that we go through are what define our character. As you often said, “What will happen will happen”. It is for those left behind to deal with it the best we can. I believe God gives us strength and understanding when we are faced with such tragedies. We cannot escape the pain and grief. It is up to us as to whether we gain strength or collapse from it. I hope that I have the strength and wisdom to understand that life is precious but transitory and the joy that we had will be countered with the same degree – deep and intense joy and love will lead to deep and intense grief and despair – the price we have to pay for the blessing we have received. Without the chance for you to say goodbye, you left me. I miss you so and I am broken hearted. When I'm alone and grasping for memories, I am blessed with the vision of your smile, the memories of the warmth of your touch and the sound of your voice. I know you loved me very much. You were my soul mate and made life worth living. The love we shared will carry me for the rest of my days. My tears fuel the fire of love lost and I look forward to joining you in eternity. You left far too soon, I have so much love left over. Our time together was cut short, but God does not make mistakes. I trust his promise and can only imagine the joy of sharing eternity with you.
Thank you for loving me.
Your loving companion,