Sad Grandma

I had an argument with my adult daughter and now I am unable to see my grandbabies. I miss my 12 year old grandaugher, the eldest and the baby nearly 2 years old. This has brought up such past grief! I am shocked by it. This has happened before and it was resolved. I have apologised to my daughter and I am hoping for the best. I miss my mother who died four years ago because she was the voice of wisdom and a fantastic family mediator as well. I pray we will be reunited. I grieve the thought that my grandchildren may think I have abandoned them. I hold them in my heart with my mother and all who have gone before even though they are alive and well. I carry on with a heavy heart because it is all I can do. Pray for us and pray my daughter has mercy. I will pray for all who grieve, Blessed be.

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Aug 08, 2012
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by: Anonymous

Thanks for your comment. I am doing better at times. I am still waiting for reconciliation.I missed all of their birthdays. I will pray for you and your situation. If I leave this earth anytime soon I hope they know I love them no matter what went on beforehand. I tell my other daughters that too. If I pass or they do any problems we had will not matter and only love will remain. Bless your heart, take it a day at a time.
Aug 07, 2012
 Sad Grandma
by: Barbara

I understand your loss...I'm going through the same thing. It's a pain nobody understands until one has walked in those shoes. Everybody tells me get over it and go live your life finally. But they were my life. I am sooo lost and I don't know what to do with me. I feel so dead inside and I just want to feel happy and hold my babies.
So, Yes I understand how you feel. But we must find a way to carry on. I'm working on it. But this has been one I don't know how to fix.
I will pray for you and wish I had good advise but I don't know other than we need to remain strong. We can't control other people, "I tried and I failed" It is their loss more than ours.
They are young and don't understand the consequences. Should we die and their was not a chance to fix a misunderstanding it would be sad on their part. I don't want my daughter and grandkids to have to live with the guilt.
Hang in their maybe somebody can tell them...they listen to others more than the ones that loves them the most.

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