september 11,2013 the most penetrating moment in my mum passed away...

by Benita Salas

I lost my mom Wednesday, September 11th, 2013 She died very suddenly from cardiopulmonary arrest and acute asthma . Her arteries were completely blocked, I loved my Mother.After my father passed away, She was my best friend and the one who comfort me. I really miss my mum her goodness, her caring and her wisdom. Losing a mother is the most deepest sorrows I feel,.. there are moments in my life that I miss so much my mum I just want to pick her from my dreams and hug her for real. I feel it is like someone cut a piece in my heart out with a sharp knife…so much pain I feel..and there is a time a found out my self crying.

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Oct 27, 2013
september 11, 2013 the most penetrating moment in my mum passed away...
by: Doreen UK

Benita I am sorry for your loss of your mother. A mother is a very integral part of her childs life even when all grown up. We never outgrow our mothers. It is early days and the pain of grief could last for weeks into months before we start to feel some healing take place. The more you cry you will be healing from your loss. The pain is like nothing else we ever experience. The pain is as if we are slowly bleeding to death from our loss. If you have people to talk to in your family or friends it helps so much to heal from our loss.
If you are able to see a grief counsellor they are skilled to help us move beyond the terrible pain. You just have to get the right counsellor. I hope the days ahead get better for you. Just take one day at a time as this helps.

Oct 23, 2013
my mum passed away
by: Martha

Sorry for your loss, my mum passed away August 2, 2013 of the same thing your mum did. My thoughts are with you and I am sorry we had to meet under such sad circumstances. I know exactly what you mean about wanting to touch her I carry a picture of her with me and whenever I fell like touching her I look at it and it makes me feel better.
But you know our mum's will never be replaced and we have to keep going forward for them.
So onward we go!


Oct 23, 2013
I can truly share your pain.
by: Rodney from Brandon Manitoba

Sad to read your mom passed away. Especially so suddenly.

I know it is a very tough road, but my mother died after only a brief illness on August 8 2013.

What I have learned so far is that grief is natural, painful but necessary we go through the process.

This site is full of people who have ben there like we are now and can offer a caring ear.

Just work the process and I hope you will someday feel a lot of peace


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