Six Months Without You

by Donna

My sweet love, I lost you six months ago today (6/9). Was just starting to write this & you sent me another "miracle moment". The song "Smile" by Uncle Kracker came on the radio. We had this song as our ring tones on our phones for each other. Then guess what follows - Rascall Flats "What Hurts the Most". That is what hurts the most - not being able to see you smile at me, hold me, kiss me, & hear you say "I love you". I'm trying, Baby. I really am. Some days are better than others. Monday was tough cause it was our anniversary. It would have been four years. Not nearly enough time for us to be together, but enough for you to show me what true happiness and true love are. I will never settle for less. I will live with our memories and know I was and am truly loved by you. I love you, Bobby, and I am always & forever yours and I hope to see you soon!!!!

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Jun 09, 2011
Six months
by: M Mack


Going through the six month period of grief was ruff for me too. I'm am in the 11th month and I still can't believe the love of my life is's over and everything we were is just a memory. I miss him so much and think about him every day. I know it's time to let him rest in peace and not worry about me- time to let go. Those songs on the radio really are for us to hear from them. So keep on feeling your little signs of communication in a song. Whatever it takes to feel close to your loved one is good. If that's all it takes to make sense of it all....give you a little happiness throughout the day then go for it. Hang in there Donna, it does get better and you will notice your heavy heart gets a little lighter as time goes by. My best to you and prayers as you go through the stages of grief.

Jun 09, 2011
True Love and Happiness
by: TrishJ

We are so truly blessed that we were fortunate enough to find true love and happiness in our lives. Some people search their entire life and never find it. The problem is dealing with life after that true love and happiness leaves us.
I was 6 months for me on June 3rd. I miss my husband so much.
Tomorrow we leave for our annual family vacation ~ the first without Joe. He was so looking forward to this trip to the Smokey Mountains. There are 13 of us going ~ it should've been 14. It will be bittersweet since he was really the one who organized the whole thing.
He left such a mark on this world. We are all better people for having had him in our lives. He was kind, honest, dependable, hard working, positive, funny, loveable. I too will not settle for less. I may spend the rest of my life alone.........but once we've had the best we can't settle for less.
God bless and I really hope things continue to go better for you. I know the pattern, some good days, some bad day. I hope for better days for both of us. Peace :)

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