So Sad

by Annabella
(Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa)

I am 11 years old and my best friend passed away yesterday. On saterday there was a huge storm in JHB and a roof fell on her. I miss her so much. I hate life. Why her. it is her birthday next week end she would have been 13. I cant go to her funeral cos it is gonna be in C.T. Life is so unfair i lost my aunt last year Jan, My gran this year June and now my best friend. :-(

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Sep 19, 2012
So Sad
by: Doreen U.K.

Annabella I am so sorry sweetie for your loss of your best friend and also for the other people you have lost recently. You are so young to have to face this tragedy. I hope that you are not alone and that you have people around you to support you. Your best friend is so very young to have her life cut so short. Annabella life is not fair. We have to face so many difficulties in life. Sadly we will go on suffering these bad tragedies because the world is getting worse. We face problems every day. It helps if we have a mom and dad to help us get through life and support us. It is important that you have someone to talk out your feelings with and who will understand how you feel and why you will cry so much. If you don't have someone to talk to try and see if there is a school counsellor who can help you work through your feelings so that you will be able to concentrate on your school work otherwise this will suffer and may hold you back. As long as we have life we will have death. People will die all the time. We will feel hurt. Some people suffer more hurt than others. We have no answers for this. If you believe in God. Pray to him and ask Him to comfort you and help you recover from the loss of your best friend. If I didn't pray I would feel hurt all the time. I have had people die around me and I am feeling hurt right now. You are not alone. sometimes we can feel in a lonely place and feel we are the only one going through the pain and sorrow of losing someone close to us. You can also keep a journal. This is a personal book that only you write in. You write out your feelings and hurts. You can write about your friend and what she meant to you and how you are hurt by her death. You can write letters to your friend that you can read for years to come. They are just written memories you will have forever. You can even write letters to God and tell Him how much you hurt and need someone to help you. This is also a good way to get your feelings out and so help you to heal from your loss. Annabella I hope that you will soon feel less hurt and that you will have God's Peace and Love with you just now and in the weeks, and months ahead. Love Doreen

Sep 19, 2012
So sad
by: silver

Age shows no difference in grief. I don't know how you feel about GOD, but I believe HE has a reason for taking our loved ones when we wish they would have been able to stay.I knew this friend of mine 28 years.Our children grew up together.When she died,my heart also broke. She has been gone over a year now and it still hurts sometimes. We were so close. If I needed to talk she was there.I have no such friend at this time,but I met someone who is beginning to be that best friend type.We have known each other for about a year and a half. I feel that GOD put her in my life because HE knew that my other friend would soon be leaving. Look around and find someone you can talk to.I also know how it is to lose so many at once.In a year and a half(remember I'm older than 55)I sent my father,my best friend,my mother,and my husband of 33yrs to HEAVEN.It's hard every day but I continue to try to be strong for the rest of my family. I will pray that you get the strength you need to feel better and find another friend.

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