Soulmates or Best Freinds or both?
by No one can know
Love is a wonderful thing
I met my true love in high school. It was true love at first sight! We dated in high school and she was 17 and I was 19 when we got married. We both was from divorced and remarried parents with step brothers and sisters. Our agreement was to wait before we were to have children of our own as a fail safe that our marriage would work and our children not go thru what we did growing up. For 6yrs we did a lot of fun things and enjoyed life I mean we were just kids! Well after 6yrs we had a child and it changed our lives. After a year went by my wife left and my son. My life was destroyed and it took several years to recover. There is a lot to my story so I have to keep it breif and short. I ended up with custody of my son and she ended up with one ruin relationship and have children of her own. We both ended remarrying with different spouses. Now because both of our new spouses were aware of my and my first wifes relationship and funny part is her spouse was jealous of me and my spouse jealous of her! Needless to say my child never had much contact with his mother most of his youth. The whole time me and my first wife never really talked for 17yrs over all and my second wife always told me she wish I was happy and I could love her like I did my first wife. I could not express my feelings at all I just felt I only existed. Deep down besides the pain I still had I still had love but all locked away. I ended up with divorcing my second wife due to we were just more like friends the a married couple. My child turned 21 and it hit me something within myself opened up and I was hit with mixed emotions.In the mean time during my problems in my second marriage my first wife was struggling in hers. At time of posting she is still currently married and I am single and been in the dating scene trying to find my best friend and true love but I could not find what I was seeking. All of a sudden something advised me to text my first wife and so me sticking my neck out there on the chopping block and trying not to start more drama I texted her. She called me and it touched my heart. We have to be real careful due to her jealous and controlling husband so she not has more issues than what she is already dealing with. I explained to her that I wanted us to be friends (something we never could do while we both were married to our current spouses) To make a long story short we now are talking on a regular bases and we both cry and laugh with each other. I feel the happiness again that I have not felt of the last 20yrs and she is feeling the same way. I feel and told her that all the pieces of the puzzle will come together to create the big picture. I have now reconnected with her side of the family and it seems like the past 20yrs never existed. I feel the true love and I know now she is my soul mate but only time will tell what comes out of all this but we are both happier than even when we were married when we were kids. Soon we will meet for the first time in many years and I am scared but yet excited and she feels same I am sure. It is amazing how this relationship is going and turning out.I know that we will now always be best friends and if we are meant together so be it if not we will still be friends and will have that special love for each other. I feel in my heart that we both will be happy regardless till our end of days upon this earth. Thank you for reading this I hope for the best for everyone.