ted is gone

My loving husband of 30 years passed from throat cancer in 2008 at age 54. We had been separated for 20 months when he passed...if I'd known he had cancer I would have stayed and helped him through it all.

My son and daughter suffered horribly from his terminal illness and fast passing. The loss affected us all and the family suffered greatly. Three years later I am finally spending my first family Christmas with my daughter. She's finally ready to go through the sympathy cards that weren't dealt with. Is it too late to reply?
Pat