In a little over 2 yrs I've lost both parents also lost my husband to cancer and my two best friends died last year my dad passed away this Jan stunning heartbreaking losses I just get to dealing with one loss and another one happens IM just going through the motions once again trying to get through each day I go to a grief group once smoother with some awesome ladies I met at hospice I have my brother my aunt my son
and my amazing friends still I wonder why this happens and what's next it will get better it has to

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May 08, 2013
by: silver

I totally understand how you feel.My baby sister died on Nov,2001.That was so very hard.I THOUGHT! On Dec 4,2009 my father died.6 months later on May 29,2010 my best friend of 28 yrs died.The next month my mother died on June 30,2010.Then 11 months later the love of my life-my husband of 33 yrs died. In 17 months I lost 4 of the most important people in my life. One of my children took my husband's death so hard they tried to die also.I totally lost it.I screamed at them that I just buried my husband and couldn't take another death.Luckily,they were not real bad and recovered without difficulty.The only advice I can give you is to keep going on.Like my dear husband used to say-"It doesn't go away but it does get easier to handle."His mother died a yr before we got married and he still grieved on occasion until he became so sick.My worst time was about 15 months after his death.I cried so hard I made myself sick-literally.My asthma got really bad.My kids fussed at me and took care of me.I have been ordered to live at least 20 more years. LOL I still cry often but each of us must grieve how we can.I pray for you and others like us.May GOD send you love and peace.

Apr 13, 2013
to all who commented on my blog
by: texastechfan

Thank you so much for responding to my comments about my loved ones that have gone on. I wish there was a way we could contact each other. That would be wonderful! All of you take care I am holding you close in my thoughts and prayers we will help each other through our unimaginable losses thank you all again!

Apr 13, 2013
by: Mona

I feel so sad for you as it must be horrible all you have went through. I wish there was a way I could contact others on this site. I do not know how to do this yet. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers as you deal with all your losses. I am here for you as well. God Bless you - Mona

Apr 10, 2013
by: Doreen U.K.

I am sorry for your loss of husband, parents, and friends. Amongst all the other losses you have had to endure. I find it hard coping with one loss. My father is dying so I will have this to do soon. I lost my husband of 44yrs. 11 months ago to lung cancer caused by working with asbestos. He died of an Industrial disease so he had no chance of survival. Death makes us very vulnerable and we all wonder what is going to happen next. We can take nothing for granted because we may not have some of our family tomorrow. None of us knows what is going to happen from one day to the next. Grieving so many losses at one time is difficult to do. All we can do is take one day at a time till we can get past this unbearable pain.

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