The loss of a daughter

by Laura Blizard
(Trail BC Canada)

My daughter. A devoted mother and a zest for life. She was murdered on Dec 27 by someone whom everyone loved and thought he was the most wonderful person because he showed kindness and cared for her children. One day he murdered her by means yet unknown. The grief in my heart is so strong I can't find it within me to pray. I feel totally empty .

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Jul 24, 2012
Concerned Mum
by: Anonymous


It hurts so deeply that you almost hate yourself that she died while you live, you feel you betray her when you smile, you dont want to eat because you feel guilty that she cannot eat. You feel you are a failure because you could not protect her, so on and on. I know it because i have been on that road for 10yrs. Pick up a charity that she would have loved and i tell you it dulls the pain, it is working for me. I will always pray for you.

Jan 07, 2012
Loss of your daughter..
by: Vickie

I am so very sorry for your terrible loss. I hope that you do have at least one person whom you can lean on at this difficult time. I lost my daughter a couple of years ago, so I know the enormous pain of losing a child. I can't even imagine having someone you know do such an unthinkable act. All of us here, are here for you. This is a place you can come to open your heart and find some comfort hopefully. I believe that one person mentioned that seeing your doctor for some medication might help during the darkest of times. I did do that and it was helpful. You haven't even had time to begin to really process all that has happened. Please know that you aren't Alone and come here when you need to. My prayers and heart go out to you.

Jan 07, 2012
you are not alone
by: Anonymous

I am so sorry for your pain, know that you will be lifted each day in my prayers.

Jan 07, 2012
by: Anonymous

I JUST CAN'T MAKE SENSE OF IT ALL. She was a wonderful mother who lived for her children, her world centered around them. She is with me every minute of every day and night. I look at her pictures From baby hood to present, She had so much life, love to give. Why has this happened. Where was God when this was happening.
thebad survive and the good die. My faith is weakening and I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO OR WHO TO TALK TO SO THAT i CAN UNDERSTAND THE WAY OF THINGS

Jan 07, 2012
so sad
by: Elizabeth

I am so terribly sad for you. It is every mother's nightmare to lose a child and how much worse to lose one to murder. I hope you are surrounded by loving people to help you through this. And I don't care what the "experts" say - tranquilizers have their place. It is absurd that they give pain killers for physical pain but not medicate the much worse emotional pain of grief. My sister died 2 weeks ago and diazepam, while not a constant use, is there for me when the worst of the sharp pain washes over me. I hope you know that I, and all those who have read your post, reach out our spiritual arms to you to comfort as best we can. Time will not heal all wounds but it truly does dull the sharpness and allow for smiles and laughter again. Take care of yourself

Jan 06, 2012
your loss
by: Joann

Laura, I am so incredibly sorry. Please take care of yourself. I am SO sorry. Joann

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