the lost of my mother is so hard

by hilda gaines
(richmond va23222)

my name is hilda gaines.i lost my mother on may12,2012 she die a day before mother day,the family went to see her at the nurse home ,our mother did not look . i hold her hand her mind was not there at all .we call her ruth, she was a mother of 8 mother was the heart to family.she was a very loving still hurts .she was my best too.she die while the family there.i lay across my mother and said. why did leave have done for every body. in any kind way she can.she was 78 years old. a very hard working mother.she can cook out this world.she was very independent .she was diagnosed with cancer in both her kidneys..the doctor gave a year to live. she lived 14 months .the family and i have our days. it still fresh to if any one out there have a mother love her. tell her everyday on the hrs.that you love her.

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Feb 07, 2013

I lost my mother on August 8, 2012. She had lung cancer. I truly miss her very much. it is now 6 months later and I still grieve alot. My mother never complained about anything and I feel like I should of done more to help her. I know she is never coming back but I feel so empty without her cause we were together everyday for over 10 years. I have never experience this kind of pain in my entire life. I grieve alone.

Jul 29, 2012
So Sorry
by: Anonymous

I too lost my mother, it was a year ago in June. I know the pain you feel and unfortunately most people will also have to go through this too. All I can say is to get support from your brothers and sisters. Talk about your mom, remember happy times, better times and know that one day you will be with her again. It will take some time but you will smile when you think of her. Cry if you have to and take care of each other. JH

Jul 28, 2012
I share your pain
by: Anonymous

My father died last year on my daughters 16th Birthday. I miss him more than words can say and my life feels so empty now. I am still grieving and my pain is deep. The cancer took my dad from us! Im sorry for your loss.....

Sincerely, Brenda

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