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The night my grandma passed away

by Ariel
(Pueblo, Colorado, U.S.)

It all started May 20, 2006 between 9:00 p.m. and 9:15 p.m.. We were all sitting in my Grandma's living room watching my little cousin's recital she had done earlier that day. I got up and went and sat next to my Grandma.

Everything seemed alright, so I turned my head to finish watching the recital. After I turned around I heard my Uncle Frank saying "Mom" in a worried voice. So I turned and looked at my Grandma and seen my Uncle Frank shaking her hand. Then I thought "This isn't good". So I kept looking at my Grandma and thought "What's going on".

Then my Grandma looked at my Uncle Frank then me and took one last breath and moved her lips saying "good-bye". After that I heard my mom burst out into tears saying "No grandma no!". Then I felt my throat swelling up and my eyes started getting watery. After that happened I found myself crying just as hard as my mom, possibly harder.

So then everybody started crying and called people who weren't there saying "Moms gone" or "Grandma's gone,she passed". I never thought I would see my grandma pass away, just because I didn't want to see her go; she left on that night.

And ever since then I can't even go to the church without remembering that night, I can't even go in my grandma's living room without seeing her there taking one last breath. This still haunts me even though it happened two years ago, I still see her presence whenever I go to her house,I don't know why this had to happen to me?

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The night my grandma passed away

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I know how you feel
by: Anonymous

I lost my grandma on 21st December 2011.I just can't get over the fact that i didn't get to meet her before she took her final breath.It all happened when my grandma started having breathing problems.One night when my mom went to see the doctor she returned with my aunt and my aunt son.Her eyes were tear soaked and i knew something was wrong.I was sent off to my aunt's house.4 days i lived there and then when i returned home there was a tent up.Surprised i went in and that's when i heard the news.Tears roll down my face when i remember her.She was the best and better than the rest.I loved her and loved her and i can't forget her.

I understand how u feel
by: Anonymous

I lost my grandma on 19/11/2011,till now I'm still grieving 4 her I'll never believe she had passed away till I saw her very last.I miss her so dearly that I wish she can hear mi,I know I've to be strong but I'm not so I can understand how u're going through...

I am so sorry
by: Samantha

I am so sorry for what you had to go through. I also was there the night my grandmother died. I was 13 and, while I did not witness her death because I was in the other room, I found her only a few minutes after she had passed away. It has been 7 years, but the effect it has had on my life has been profound, and it still hurts so badly. I sympathize deeply with your pain, and I urge you to get help if you need it when dealing with your feelings of loss. I had a hard time dealing with my grief because I was so worried about saying strong for my mother, and the events of my grandmother's death overshadowed my memories of her. However, if you do not confront what happened the feelings will not go away. The pain has only gotten worse for me and manifested itself deeper because I tried to avoid it.
Thank you so much for sharing your story. Something I have always struggled with was feeling alone in that none of my friends could really relate to or understand what I was going through. I hope you do not feel this way too, but if you do just know that there are people out there who can relate to the terrible tragedy you suffered and that you are not alone!

MY 89 YEAR OLD GIRL FRIEND & MY GRAND MA
by: TARUN

I lost my grand mother on 1st of Febuary 2010 at 9:45 p.m.

She was perfect a month back and celebrated with us the new year and gave us blessings. She use to love my kids like god on the earth for someone at this age she was the granny of my younger one. She was an angel.

On 7th January 2010, I came to know that she had a gall bladder cancer stage 4 and this news came to me as a blast and I started crying like a small child in front of all the persons I knew.
I was begging in front of the doctors to save my grandma at least for some more time but ---.

Every passing day she was dying in front of me and I could not see her in the situation she was.

She was a proffessional priest and she predicted for herself also in the month of October 09 that she will die before Feb 2 of 2010.

Finally the 1st Febuary came, and we were a little bit happy to see her recovering, as she asked for breakfast in the morning. We were happy that soon her prediction time will pass away and she will be all right, but she started uneasyness in her breathing and passed away in front of us.
We were just standing and looking at her and could not save her from this deadly disease.

I am very sad and not able to do anything to date and no one is able to understand me.

I am missing her very badly.

I understand
by: Anonymous

I'm so sorry for your loss.I just lost my grandma yesterday and I feel the same way. :(

I understand you!

Your grandma
by: Kendra

Honey, do I hear you say your grandma was there enjoying her time with your family, and she passed with no warning, no pain, no disease? Oh, my.... As shocking as that is, oh, such grace upon her.

I've heard of such things. While my mom was dying in the nursing home one of the people there told me of a man and his wife in bed watching tv, eating popcorn and talking. All of a sudden she stopped talking, he looked over, she was gone!

I am so sorry for your loss, and I'm sure that the picture of that night will ever be etched in your mind, but I hope that eventually you will be comforted by the fact that there was no suffering.

I hope you will be free from regret eventually, too, as I'm sure you've things you wished you had done, or said....that it's too late now.

Bless your heart and bless your love you have for her.


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