This site is still helping me

by Kay

This site is amazing with so many amazing beautiful people sharing their story of grief. When I am alone at night I find this site a blessing. I feel close to others who know what pain we share.I think to myself, how do we cope? It is so hard, somedays I cry and cry so hard and think of my last only son Dean 23.

Somedays I just want to lie in bed and try to sleep because I'm so sad and sleeping blocks out the pain.....but still we go on pushing ourselves to carry on with our lives, sometimes I feel like a robot doing things in a sort of haze. Days roll on by..they seem to fly. Its almost 8 months. I love and miss you so much Deano. RIP. my darling son. Mum

As surely as the sun will set in the darkening evening sky,
I can't change what life will bring nor know the reason why
For a time it is hidden and the sun I cannot see,
I can't see you my darling Dean but I feel your spirit here with

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Jan 07, 2011
Writing does help
by: Ms Mack

Hi Kay,

I can't agree with you more. Sharing our stories and writing our pain is helping me too. Dean is very handsome and you should know he is still with you in spirit. I can tell you were very close. I think you are getting stronger, just having a few relapses. Hopefully they will be less often as time progresses. Your poem says it all.... We really don't understand why they are taken from us and it's just Gods will. We accept this and bear the pain. It's making us stronger, different and changes our lives as we knew it.

My prayers and best wishes for you in the days that follow. Take care and keep writing...we are all feeling it with you and you are not alone.

Jan 06, 2011
Beautiful Son
by: Pat J

God's blessings to you. I hope when I reach the 8 month mark I am as strong as you. My husband passed away just a little over 4 weeks ago. I can't look at any pictures of him without going into hysterics.

What a handsome young man Dean was. I'm sure you miss him as much as I miss my husband. How to we endure without these loved ones? I try to remind myself of the blessings I still have in my life but it's so hard not to feel the pain of loss. I should be grateful that I had my husband for the past three years. The doctors wrote him off several years ago and he kept hanging in there.
Wishing you peace and happiness.

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