Three Family Member Lives Taken to Heaven Within A Year

by E.A.A.

My ex, Troy Davis, is the father to my everything, Kylie Davis. We separated from each other when Kylie was a year old. Since then there were custody battles, child support issues, and volatile rage between us. Troy started seeing a nice woman, Timberly, who Kylie absolutely adored so I was happy to see Troy be with someone who was good to my daughter, On July 3 2011, only 3 day old, Tanner Jo Davis was taken into the arms of God. Troy, Timberly, family, friends, enemies were devastated, sad, angry, and hurt. Tanner was Kylie’s half sister. She was so excited to be a big sister and teach and play with her new baby sister. After Tanner’s death Troy and I became closer as friends instead of enemies. I told him I would be there anytime if he ever needed to talk. Due to the death of Tanner, Troy and Timberly were unable to cope well together and decided to go there separate ways. In March of 2011, Troy’s eldest brother, Erich Heath Davis, passed away from organ failure, due to drinking liquor his whole life. He drank a handle of aristocrat day in and day out. It was heartbreaking to see the life taken out of such a charismatic, charming, entertaining, humorous human being. In early May of 2011, Troy received the news he has a triple hernia. He also appears to be getting what looks to be liver rash. He has a scheduled surgery on June 8, 2011. On May 28, 2011, Troy and his family lost their middle son, Brian Wood Davis. He passed away due to the same reason Erich passed. Troy was talking to him trying to get him to open his eyes one last time. He was begging him. He told him to just let go so he could take care of Tanner and Erich up in heaven. Roughly 15 minutes later his stats kept dropping and he passed with us holding his hands. In less than a year, my daughter’s father and family lost Tanner; a daughter, grandchild, great-grandchild, sister. They lost Erich; son, brother, father, uncle. Then not even 2 months after the death of Erich, they lost Brian; a son, brother, step-father, fiance, uncle. Troy called me last night asking me to take him up to the hospital so he could see his last living brother one more time. I dropped everything I was doing to go pick him up and take him. Watching the pain and suffering, guilt, hurt, anger he has built up scares me. It scares me so much it will take over him and Kylie will loose her father. Keep the Davis Family in your prayers.

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May 29, 2011
No Words
by: Anonymous

I am so sorry to hear of your pain and loss. All I can say is "be strong." My DIL gave birth to a beautiful little girl on May 3, 2011. She was stillborn. Just the Friday before all her vitals were good. We don't understand. She was perfect in every way. Hopefully time will ease your pain. I hope for you that your ex- or whatever your current relationship status with him is- will find ways to vent his pain, too. Good luck.

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