To young to die, My wife,my soulmate.

by Gary Zigich
(New Jersey)

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My Name is Gary,and it has been tree weeks since the death of my wife dawn.Back in 2000 is when we met,in a New Jersay Veterans Hospital,I have just gave up drinking because it was killing me I had hepititus from drinking,At that time I was seperated from my exwife.I had cought her cheating on me and I was very badly hurt so I went on a suiside mission with alcohol.So when I was admitted to the VA hospital,I met this pritty blond haired women that was my nurse her name was Dawn.She was so kind and good to me that I had to stay in touch with her so when I got out of the hospital I called her and we went to have coffiee at a diner and we wheir just friends at first and not dateing I could tell her anything and she understood me, so we would start hanging out everyday,Then we started falling for each other I have finnaly found my solemate, we bolth ended up on disibility and hve been with each other for 24/7 and never got on each others nerves we would have our disagreements every now and then,but we loved one another very much we told each other we loved one another evry day and night.we had a love like no other,
On aug 22,2004 we tied the knot and got married,she was the most beautiful bride I had ever seen.
she was so happy that day,I have never seen her so happy like this before,
So in 2008 we moved to FLA. And dawn did not like the heat that much so so in 2010 on sept 11,2010 I got a phone call from NJ That my son was hit by a car and had died he was 15 yrs. old. Me and dawn was devistated,And got the first flight to newark airport so after we buried my son, feeling riped apart from his death we dicided to move back to NJ to be closer family. The next month I was hospitalized for diabetes, and dawn helped me get through it all,She was the only one that knew what I was going through.
So we moved back to NJ in Nov 20010, and found a little appartment and dawn fixed it up nice, we wheir happy and content liveing there,Then on Feb 2 2012, I woke up to my nightmare. I went to wake up Dawn and she had some kind of liquid running out of her moulth. so I called 911 and thay told me to do CPR so I started doing CPR and she was not responding,At that time I was screeming HELP!! ME then the police came and thay tried to help her but it was to late.
I so hurt from this I Pray to god to bring her back, But I know that is not going to happen. I have been crying for a mounth and can't stop. I go to bed alone at night.Dawn ment the world to me and now I have nothing,my pain is so bad I can't do anything but go on looking for the anwner on this computer. Dawn was only 43 she passed in her sleep with a brain anerisum. if anyone has been through this and has any feed back please email at garyzigich@gmail.com
I Miss her so much thank you Gary Zig

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Mar 03, 2012
Thank you everyone
by: Gary Zigich

I want to thank everyone for the feed back on the loss of my wife Dawn,you all said some nice things.I wish thier was an easy way to get through this, by shareing and talking about it helps a lot, please feel free to email me at
garyzigich@gmail.com Thank you agian all of you
Gary Zigich

Mar 01, 2012
Finding Peace Eventually
by: Judith in California

Gary, I'm sorry for the passing of your loving mate Dawn. It's one of the hardest experiences you'll ever do. Let your self greive anytime , anyplace you can for as long and hard as you feel. You will eventually find the peace and acceptance you are longing for.

The answer is in what you wrote and that is: she passed in her sleep with a brain aneurysm. You can GOOGLE brain aneurysm and read all about it.They happen suddenly ,without warning unfortunately. God has her now and he will see you through the pain of losing her. Talk with Him anytime for comfort and strength.

I'm almost 18 months enduring the pain of losing my husband and am at the peace and acceptance stage but still grieve at times, but not as often, tho I will always love him and miss our life together. No one except God can ever take away the memories or the pictures that prove we were in love.

Please come back here to express your feelings. We are here for you.

Mar 01, 2012
I know your pain.
by: karen

Hi,i to lost my son Josh on the 17th August 2011 he was 14yrs old so i know what you and your wife were going through we still dont know what happend to Josh.I found him sumerged in the bottom of our shower bay he had been havin bad dizzy spells for a while and anerisyms run in my family.But his doctor didnt want to know about it so from that you should know what we are doing next.I am so sorry for your wifes loss i to miss Josh so much the pain in unberable i cry all the time no matter where i am.I kiss his photo every morning and night and say to him what happend and why him.I hope this helps a little bit only the people who have been in the same position knows what we are going through as parents.Love to you my e-mail is tascolder007@yahoo.com.au please dont hesitate to email me would love to here from you.Karenx

Mar 01, 2012
I know your pain.
by: karen

Hi,i to lost my son Josh on the 17th August 2011 he was 14yrs old so i know what you and your wife were going through we still dont know what happend to Josh.I found him sumerged in the bottom of our shower bay he had been havin bad dizzy spells for a while and anerisyms run in my family.But his doctor didnt want to know about it so from that you should know what we are doing next.I am so sorry for your wifes loss i to miss Josh so much the pain in unberable i cry all the time no matter where i am.I kiss his photo every morning and night and say to him what happend and why him.I hope this helps a little bit only the people who have been in the same position knows what we are going through as parents.Love to you my e-mail is tascolder007@yahoo.com.au please dont hesitate to email me would love to here from you.Karenx

Mar 01, 2012
Dallas
by: Janet

Hi Gary,

I am so sorry for your loss. Ir will get better with time, trust me. I am into my 4th month of losing my husband of 25 plus years.
Some days or worse than others and I have to admit that there are days when I wake up and feel absolutely awesome, like nothing ever happened even know I know it did. I miss my husband so much that it is really hard to put into words. I cried myself to sleep for the first time in the 121 days since his passing in Belize Central America.
I understand your grief but I will not say I know what you are going through as we each travel our own road alone. All we can do is look for comfort along the way and people who understand where we are coming from, where we are and where we have been and where we are going on this road we travel alone. This is a very hard journey that we are all must travel and unfortanately we must travel it alone. Friends and Support Groups give us the outlet to express our grief but they cannot travel it with us. They can only offer what there experiences were/are but each person is unique and his/her travel is unique.
I pray that your travel this road knowing that there are people who care and are here for you. One breath, one step, one day at a time is all we can do for now. I believe with the power of the man up above that we will all come through this a better person for it. I am here should you ever want to talk. E-mail me at janetsellars@sbcglobal.net should you want someone to talk to. Nay God hold you in the pallm of your hands and watch over your every day.

Feb 29, 2012
My Wife, my soulmate
by: Catherine K

Dear Gary:
I am so terribly sorry for the loss of Dawn, the woman you loved so much. We question how something like this can happen.
No-one can really say what another is going through but if anyone can understand the deep pain it is me.
I lost my son Stephen in 1997 at the age of 26 and then on November 15th 2011 my beautiful daughter Stephanie died. She was 42. I have only one child left now and to make it even harder for us, their Dad died of cancer two weeks after Stephanie. We were divorced but very close since the death of our son. Now, here I am with my beloved daughter gone and I do not even have her Dad any more so that we can comfort each other.
The pain is unbearable but as hard as it seems, it will get less with time.
Just remember that Dawn loves you and her spirit is still around you. Think of the wonderful love you both had and try to focus on the good times if possible. Get counselling so that you can talk it out.
God bless you and make you feel better soon.

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