Too much pain!

In February I lost my Mom. Then 2 weeks later my dog died and then my cat just disappeared to never be seen again.

Two months later my husband found out he had stage 4 pancreatic cancer and he is close to death. He made out his will and stated that he gave his house that I am living in to one of his sons and his wife. His wife hates me and I cannot figure out why but my husband says I have the right to stay in the house for 5 years but they will be living there too. I do not make enough money to move right now and I am looking for another job. I do not want to stay in the house with his daughter n law and I really do not know how I can cope with all this pain and fear at the same time.

Is someone else going through something like this and if you are can you help me?

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Jul 21, 2012
Your sister in grief
by: Sharon

When I read your story I was touched because it is so similar to mine...
On July 18th of this year I found my beautiful daughter dead in her apartment of a drug overdose. I travelled to Colorado for her memorial, because my family is there, and when I got back my dog, my best friend, had run away, and is still gone. Yesterday morning, I found my precious kitty lifeless near my house.
I can't pay my rent, because I have just gone back to work after having a hip replacement.
I'm so sorry for your losses. It's a lot of pain. I don't know how to make sense of losing so much all at once. I try to hold to God, what else is there?
I hope you've gotten some relief for your worries. I'm praying for you.

May 17, 2012
by: Anonymous

I am not going through the same thing but I do understand and will keep you on my prayer list.

May 17, 2012
by: Anonymous

Sorry for your loss. You're in a messy situation. If you're legally married, you may have rights to the house, unless you gave it up in writing. Laws vary from state to state, so you should see a lawyer to protect your rights.

All the best to you.

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