trying to deal with the chaos along with everything else

by t

my fiance died feb 21,2011 a week before he died i lost my job of 8 years . we lived together he stated many times i was taken care of i would be left the house if something were to happen to him. that wasnt the case however he did not have a will that he assured me and other family members he had. the day of his funeral after i got home from the funeral the police pulled up in the driveway shortly after my fiance's 2 children pull up. they called the police to have me removed from the house. i was not made to leave that day. his daughter got a estate attorney and she was made administrator and i got a eviction notice 2 weeks later to get out so i did she moved in the house. i thought it was all over she got what she wanted the house. i had to try to find a new place pack and put the grieving on the back burner it was very hurtful and mean what she did to me. it has been 2 months and i am receiving letters now from the estate attorney wanting all the property that was mine in the house returned to the house so she can be comfortable in our house with my belongings. i left all my fiance's property in the house when i moved out. this has all been a lot to bear some days im mad at him for all this chaos. and i wonder why? what did i do to deserve all this to hit me all at once?

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Apr 27, 2011
Man I sure hope that karma is paying attention
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I am so very sorry for what you have gone through. The fact that his daughter took advantage of the situation is horrible. Often times when one passes the surviving person has rights having been with them for X amount of years. Common law marriage. I guess this varies from state to state but to to the state attorney and find out what your rights might be. Do not allow this to just pass you by. Having tried what you can may not bring results but it should bring some satisfaction that you did your best with a rotten situation. Hang in there things will get better...

Apr 25, 2011
EVERYTHING ELSE.
by: JG

HOW FREAKIN SAD FOR YOU!. WHAT A COLD CALCULATING BITCH HIS DAUGHTER IS . I HOPE SHE ONE DAY , ROTS IN HELL. AND HER ATTORNEY AND THE POLICE THAT HELPED HER.

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