It has been two year since Roger died. I used to come to ths sight every day. I read how people were coping and getting through. But I don't seem to be able to. There is no one to talk to. No one wants to hear what I have to say because all I want to do is talk about Roger. I miss him so much. We did everything together we were married almost 40 years. I can't do anything or go anywhere without thinking of him .. After Roger died my mom took a turn for the worse so I have moved her in to my home. I don't know if this was a good idea because now there is no me time. I am constantly taking care of her 24/7. All I want to do is be with Roger. No one understands, no one cares. I feel so selfish sometimes, but I miss the person who took care of me. The one who was always there. The loneliness is so overwelming. I started a support group and went twice but had to stop so I could take care of my mom.