Unfortunate accident occurs and my beloved hubby is no more around.

by Jeslyn Sim

Hello everyone,

I don't know if there will be anyone reading.
But I don't wish to keep it in my heart anymore.

I am 26years old and Im a window.

Me n my hubby were happily married and we had a baby boy.

My son is 3 years old. And my hubby met an unfortunate accident this early Feburary this year 2013.

I was so afraid the moment I received calls from his company informing me my hubby got into an accident.

I was hoping its a minor one. Unfortunately, It's a serious n leading to fatal.

Half year passes.. that's really fast than I expected.

All I know is I only have my son now, our flat which me n my husband had applied together will be ready in 3 years time.

How I wish he was still with me.
May he RIP. I promise I will raise up our son and guide him to be a good man.

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Nov 11, 2013
I know how you feel
by: Anonymous

I have lost my husband as well in a car accident and have a daughter,6 yrs old. it seems to get harder each day, but prayers sometimes calms me . Can't say it always helps, but i know i have to goon for my daughter. We have been together 14 years.

Oct 23, 2013
by: Anonymous

Although we did not have a child as you two did, my husband was also killed at 24 by someone in a car accident [january 2013]. I am 25,now almost 26 and I want you to know this: no matter what you feel, its your life. Do not feel bad for feeling (or not feeling) things people will expect-they all have opinions dont they? My husband and I were very very happy, and he had so much in store and for me that has been a harder loss than our relationship itself. However, take comfort knowing that your child still has a life ahead of him, and that you are able to continue to love life, both in relation to him and in your new way. Life is never "without", just "after". I will keep you on my mind, stay strong but know its healthy to feel weak.♥

Sep 06, 2013
Unfortunate accident occurs and my beloved hubby is no more around.
by: Jeslyn

Thanks everyone for the comfort advice.

Half years gone, Im still missing him.
Son, 3yrs old this year had start asking, where is my daddy.? Repeatly telling him that his dad is no more around is like reminding myself the day when I couldn't have the last chance to speak to him before he close his eyes.
Feeling so regret why didn't I rush over to the hospital earlier.?

He sure had alot to tell me before he leaves.

Mother in law had been giving me hard life before my hubby gone, now its even harder for me to live with her.?

I so wish to move back to my mum place, but I knew my mother-in-law would definately not agree to it. What should I do then?

I really need a peaceful space for myself and son.

Sep 05, 2013
So sorry
by: Anonymous

I'm so sorry that you lost your husband and are going through all of this pain. I lost my father 8 months ago and I am struggling to deal with this loss. I simply take things one day at a time, and I am healing with my mother at our own pace. I hope you find comfort here-we are all on this horrible journey, and understand how you feel. Peace.

Sep 05, 2013
Unfortunate acciden occurs and my belove hubby is no more around.
by: Doreen U.K.

Jeslyn I am so sorry for your loss of your husband and now a widow at such a young age with a very young child to bring up without his daddy. I hope that you have supportive family and friends to help you and walk with you through your grief. One just doesn't know what each day will bring to us in life. But we can't worry about what will happen. We have to go on each day and just Hope it will be a better day and we can cope with all the Trials and Tribulations we have to go through on this earth.
I was married 44yrs. and lost my husband 16 months ago today. I am healing slowly from this loss. But days can be good and bad and I never know what each day will hold for me. Just when I think I am moving forward, I find myself crying because he is not here with me. I still feel so lost and ALONE. Take one day at a time. This will help you get through life. I don't doubt you will be a good mother and bring up your son to be proud of his father and to honour his memory. Look after yourself also and write back if you need further support.

Sep 04, 2013
unfortunate accident occurs and my beloved...
by: silver

My heart goes out to you.My husband died May 2011.I was blessed to have 33 yrs.I feel strongly for your grief.I send you prayers to GOD to send you strength and peace.Come back to this site. There are some wonderful people here who know just how you feel.It has helped me.

Sep 04, 2013
I'm so sorry
by: Monica

It's like a nightmare that u can't wake-up from & time goes by so fast yet stands still in your heart. PPL think u can just dust yourself off & start over like it's so easy to do when just yesterday all was fine but today in a blink a major piece of your world crumbled & nothing makes sense anymore. I just want u 2 know that I'm sorry 4 your loss & I understand your pain. I refuse to say those annoying things to u that ppl seem 2 think is so comforting at the wrong time. I was 19 when my fiancée died & 29 when my husband & daughter died & I didn't think I was going to make it through it but I have to some degree. Its a day by day process for me! Somedays I'm good & get through the day without a tear then they're days when I can't get out of bed but not 1 day passes where I don't think about my family because I don't have a family anymore. U take care of yourself & that precious baby! Email me anytime

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