When it rains it pours
As soon as I got back home after Christmas, everything started. First with little things... My heat going out then one of my dogs injured herself an the other jumping through a glass window to get to her. The vet bill alone was over a grand.
Then I find out my mom( who is only 60) is in a nursing home after DHS reported finding her walking the streets a block from her house lost. She has demensia, possible growing tumor in we brain and going through psychiatric treatment.
Then my x step brother whom found out about my mom being in a nursing home, broke into my moms house an proceeds to load stuff up. I had to call a deputy out to put a stop to it. I'm a state away. We then have the state put a lean against the property seeing as how everything is being paid by Medicaid.
This last two weeks, I find out that my grandma in Washington passed away. I talked to her two days prior. This is my mothers mom and she went through dialysis last year. She had kidney failure :( . Then I get a call from my dad, he had some swelling in his head after Christmas. The doctors found a tumor at the top of his stomach and it's wrapping around to his back. He is being stubborn about wanting help and is barely communicating with us about it. He will be 70 this year.
More problems with my mom, her doctor says she is fine and she can be released any time. The nursing staff is trying to help is out by not letting my mom find out. If she found out then she would try and leave and she is not medically capable of taking care o herself or has a house to go to. Adult Protective Services is now involved because of one of her " bad days" in accusing a nurse of twisting her arm. So now APS and the doctor have different opinions on my mother staying in the nursing home and we have no control over the situation.
Also, my dad has been taking care of my grandma ( his mom) who is 89 and has Alzheimer's. With his medical issues we are now having to find a nurse or medical assistance to go by and take care of her daily. :(
All of this has been happening within a months time. I'm only 25 and I knew it would happen sooner or later but it's just overwhelming with it all happening at once....