Within 7 days I lost my mother (68), my disabled brother (42) in a road traffic collision and my first grandson (born two months early).

by catherine
(england)

Hi,

Within 7 days I lost three close members of my family. My mother and disabled brother were invovled in a head on collision with a van on 16th November 12, my mum died after two hours of the accident and my disabled brother died 6 years later at sheffield intensive care unit on 22nd November 12. Then out of the blue, my daughter found her unborn son was not moving and after a blood transfusion he died at sheffield baby unit on 23rd November 12. I lost all three precious members of my family unexpectantly within 7 days. Totally life changing. I lost my best friends who I saw on a daily basis. I think Im still in shock. catherine

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Apr 09, 2013
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by: Mona

So sad to read this post and I don't know how one goes one after this but please remember they are with you and watching over you. OH my heart hurts from reading this. Blessings to you and hugs too. I am new to this site and so glad I found it. So sorry for your loss.

Mar 17, 2013
Within 7 days I lost my mother (68), my disabled brother (42) in a road traffic collision and my first grandson (born two months early).
by: Cassie

I am so sorry for the way things happend in your life and for the pain you must feel. I have been through the same pain and it is something that is very serious. I hope you have faith in the Lord Jesus and if not i pray that you find it. I will keep you in My praiers and hope that you can make it through this terrible time. God bless your soul and stay strong.

Mar 16, 2013
Within 7 days I lost my mother, 68, Brother 42 in a RTA and grandson to a premature delivery
by: Doreen U.K.

Catherine I am sorry for your loss of 3 family members so suddenly in 7 days. This is such a cruelty. I don't honestly know how someone gets through this alone without support. It may be wise to get some grief counselling from CRUSE bereavement services, so you can separate each loss and what this relationship has meant to you. You will then be able to grieve each loss in a way that will help you move forward better. It is hard enough in life but without our loved one's in it we will find life difficult. We need each other in life. I sit here alone without my husband who died 10 months ago from cancer and I wonder how I will get through each day in such a quiet house. I am not one who likes quiet. As a 64yrs old woman I like a lot of activity and buzz around me. That way it makes me feel alive. Now nothing happens around me that speaks of signs of life. This adds to my grief. It is amazing how even a phone call can brighten up our day. Since my husband's death I am vulnerable to loss and fear for my children and 2 baby grandchildren's safety each day. But in reality we can do nothing by PRAY every day over our lives, our loved one's lives and our safety each day from the tragedies of life. I hope that you are able to get the support you need and to then be able to find your way back into life.

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