You claimed to be our friend, REALLY???
This is kinda of long so I apologize up front but I've got to get this out, I feel so betrayed.
I worked with a guy at Walmart for 3-4 years on and off. Bryan also worked with him at the same time for about a year. Every one knew how much in love Bryan and I were with each other. So I can not believe what this guy has done. He was divorced and his 13 year old daughter was a spoiled, controlling BRAT. Every time that she got mad at her mom or her moms new husband she would move back in with her dad. Every women that he was interested in she either ran off or made him break up with her. I told him that he needs to put his foot down and make her stop or one day she is going to move out and he's going to be all alone. Well guess what? It happened and I guess he went off the deep end feeling sorry for himself. He called me one day about 3 weeks after Bryan died, crying about it and comparing me and Bryan to him and his ex-wife. He said that he knew how I felt. How dare he, how could he have the audacity to do or say that. His ex-wife did not die she CHOSE to leave him, Bryan did not. If Bryan could have stayed he would still be here.
Well I have avoided both him in town and his numerous phone calls. What is so hard to understand, someone doesn't answer your calls that usually means they don't want to talk to you.
Well months have gone by and my two daughters and I were shopping at Walmart and I was talking to two friend of mine that work there. All of a sudden he runs up and hugs me. All he said was I've missed you how are you doing now? Well it took me all of 5 seconds to get the hell away from him and as I ran off I told my oldest daughter to handle this for me. About 5 minutes later she found me and said that she told him that I still wasn't talking to anyone but family. What a lie.
I went back to the store the next day and went back over to see my friend. She asked me if he was hitting on me, that thats what it looked like to her and the manager that I was talking to. I told her that if he ever made the mistake and did that again that I was going to bring him to his knees.
HOW DARE HE, I thought that he was my (our) friend. I feel so betrayed. Now I don't want to go to town for anything for fear that he will do this again. I'm just thankful that there were people around when he did this. I don't need or want anyone but my daughters and grandkids around me anymore. But I know that I can't do that, I have people who are depending on me to take them places as I am the only one with a drivers license and vehicle. Also, I am trying really hard to get out and start doing the little things again, I know that is what I need to do. Bryan I need your help to overcome this oh no another anxiety attack.
Thank you all for reading, I wouldn't be able to survive as well as I am if it wasn't for this site and the wonderful caring people who post on it. It has become my lifeboat in life. So I go one step one breath one second at a time Bryan I love you forever until we meet again