Your Birthday

by Cindy

My love passed away Sept 19th 2012 in my arms at home. He wanted so badly to turn 70 "now he is gone and the pain is still like yesterday." Good days and hard nights. So many first with out us. The hoildays were so hard. So how to get throuth his birthday. We would go to a movie maybe dinner and a movie. I have hopes I can celebrate his life with a dinner and a moive. I plan to release birthday ballons. He would want me to and told me to be happy for him. He would be home with the Lord and free from sickness and pain. Yet I know the joy of not seeing him so sick and in so much pain tho he never showed it or voiced it we knew. He was so strong. So I need to celebrate his life as he would want me to. He would want me to become strong but I am far from it as I walk this first year with out my soul mate my love. Cindy

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Jan 18, 2013
your birthday
by: silver

My husband of 33 yrs died 4 mos before he turned 63. The first hard part was that our Anniversary was May 22: a Sunday. Two days later he was in Intensive Care. By the next Sunday he had died.I felt so lost until this month.I am beginning to heal a little and see how blessed I am that we had as long as we did together.I try to remember all the good times,the funny things he used to say and do,and other memories. I have his picture on my desktop of my computer.I tell him good night each night.I thank GOD for taking him away from all the misery he was in.He had emphysema and was getting worse all the time.He got pneumonia and that's what killed his body.I look forward to seeing him again one day.We never get over our loss but we can learn to live with it.I truly believe that LOVE NEVER DIES.I send my prayers of peace and courage.

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