Yvette - Canada

by Yvette

I lost the love of my life on January 9, 2012. He was 41. We were together for 11 years married for 9. We had three beautiful children together (7,4 and 17 months). He also had a wonderful 18 year old. I am still in shock and crying everyday. He was a wonderful husband and father. Other women would tell me I was so lucky to have found such a good man and they were right. He had been sick the last couple of years but the doctors never expected him to die. That was why it was such a shock. He had been home looking after the children and the house. He was wonderful with the kids. They loved him so much. What makes me even sadder is that the two youngest will not remember him. :( I will miss him for the rest of my life and I get very sad when I think about the next 40 years without him. I worry about how the children will do without him. I just want to go back in time and have God change the outcome.

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Feb 12, 2012
grief unites
by: Julie (UK)

I too lost my lovely husband of 31 years on 9th January 2012 we may be 1000s of miles apart but i know exactly how you are feeling.Even though our 2 children are grown up they cannot believe their wonderful brave dad has gone. I to cannot contemplate my life without him but know i have to carry on in the hope that it will all somehow ,somewhen make sense

Feb 12, 2012
by: Yvette

When I saw your name on here, it tugged my heart and made me cry. My name is Yvette and I lost my amazing husband 4 months ago tomorrow. I live each day moment by moment. Allowing myself to grieve and not kicking myself for it! My two boys miss their daddy tremendously! The only thing that brings me peace is knowing that my husband is in heaven, and I will see him soon!
I will be praying for you, Yvette! God bless you!

Feb 12, 2012
Broken hearted
by: anonymous

I am so sorry for your loss i to lost my husband om January 8th 2012 i miss him so badly.It was very sudden and unexpected.I cant tell you it will get easier because it doesnt.I understand how you are feeling and it is like someone has ripped out your heart.I have also just lost my mum on February 9th as well.Life has to go on apparently so just breathe in and out each day and keep going for your children.God is with us all and your husband will be with you for the rest of your life not phsically i know but no one can ever take away all your memories and the good times you had they are for you and you alone to remember.Please take care and try and be kind to yourself, God Bless x

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