Dianna 37, Johnson 38, Dallas 18, Johnny 16

by cassie
(tulsa, oklahoma, USA)

these four people were the most important people to me in the world. Dianna and Johnson were my parents, my mom died in a car accedent and my dad died by dranking himself to death because he got so depressed about my mom dying. then three years later i met Johnny he was my true love and we were together until he died in a church fire. and my brother Dallas dyed by being shot by a cop, my brother, i guesse couldn't take it cause i know he wanted to dye, he was so grief strucken. i miss all of them and they will never be forgotten. im tryin to be stronge for them.

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Jan 23, 2018
Hurting hearts
by: Alan 30

Wow that is so sad, your inner strength is shining. I have just had my first bereavement 1 week ago. my brother my best friend my house mate and this feeling inside is so painful depression has set in I have 5 children who depend on me. I'm so sad every day. I live by "there is always someone worse off" I couldn't imagine the pain you feel, and I'm so sorry for all that you have lost. My heart hurts for you . I don't know how to deal with this hurt for one. Good luck and blessings hunnie xx

May 19, 2013
by: Linda Keown, Harare, Zimbabwe

Cassie I am so sorry to hear of your losses. Life is not easy. You are so young to have to deal with these terrible losses.

I am 55 years old. In 1990 I lost my father to Emphasema, I lost my sister who was 43 years old in 2007 from a broken leg, I lost my brother who was nearly 50 to brain cancer in 2009 and just very recently on 5.4.13 I lost my precious mother to Ishaemic Bowel. So many losses to deal with but for me my mother's passing has hit me the hardest. My life is so empty so I can just imagine how you are feeling.

Please see a Counsellor because its so good to talk it really is - please.

I am thinking of you - may God hold you close.

Dec 31, 2012
Dianna 37, Johnson 38, Dallas 18, Johnny 16
by: cassie

thank you so much. it will take ALOT of time to heal, and i probably will never fully get over this, but i will try. im so happy i can tell my story and have nice people like you help me through this. God bless you, and thank you

Dec 31, 2012
by: Anonymous

Dear cassie,
Nothing to be said here! Please let me know if there is something I can do for you, If you need somone to talk to please allow me to help.

Dec 26, 2012
Dianna 37, Johnson 38, Dallas 18, Johnny 16
by: Doreen U.K.

Cassie I am sorry for your loss of 4 people from your life leaving you desolate and in anguish. You can't be expected to be strong for everyone. You need to grieve normally. It might be a good idea to go and see a grief counsellor so you can be supported and grieve each death. You have been through so much loss in your young life and you need to handle these losses with the help of someone who can help you work through the issues relating to your multiple loss of special people in your life. You will be broken for a long time and need to give yourself time to recover from your loss's. Your brother was so very young to die. You will be able to move forward better with support. You also need to make sure that you don't hold onto any prolonged sadness and sorrow that can turn into depression and cause you to not be able to move forward in your life. In time you will be able to HEAL from all your loss's and be in a happier place. Don't ever give up HOPE.

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