by Eba

My youngest sweet heart was born on the 14/7/1984 and died on 21/2/2011 ahhhhhhhhh am still in pain I miss him so so much ,I have 2 daughters and another son he is also very good young man ,but my daughters r making me crazy the to of them r still singles age 34 and 31, they don't go 2 work daily coz they hate there jobs tough they r. Well educated,,, my problem is I wish 2. Die but can't coz my son needs me and loves me ,respect me much. More then. My girls,,I also don't want to break my husbands and son and daughters heart ,,am on cd medication now ,cepralex am not enjoying life I want to b with my dead son but I won commit suicide coz am not a believer ,though am Muslim . That's not all coz i' ll write u again latter,thank u for reading.

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Jul 25, 2012
So sorry for your loss
by: Rosa

My heart goes out to you and am so sorry for the loss of your beloved son. I too lost my son so I can truly say that I know what you are going through. I think that we all feel like we don't want to live anymore when we lose someone that was very dear to us so I can understand when you say that. I too, felt at the beginning when my son has passed away that I just wanted to die too and go with him. It has been 1 year and almost 2 months since he died and thank God I am on my way to a wonderful healing. It did take me a long time and still to this day I still have days when my soul agonizes over his death but the difference now is that that horrible pain does not stay with me anymore, i have learned to overcome it and replace the horrible thoughts of how he died with good memories me and my son shared. i have learned to cope with his death and not live with regrets. If you have not gone to get help with this loss, i would say please do it, I can assure you that it will help you alot with your healing. If you know of anyone else that has lost a loved one, go and speak with them because they understand what you are going through. Sounds like life is pretty bad right now for you but don't make the mistake of trying to handle it on your own, that can be very lonely, frustrating and will only knock you down further into depression. I will be praying for God to help you with this pain and that He will help you get through this. Please i beg you, please go and get some type of help from someone.

Jul 23, 2012
by: Doreen U.K.

Eba I am sorry for the loss of your son. I am sorry that you are grieving to the point you don't want to live.
We all on this grief website know what you are going through. We are in the same place as you.
WE are all going through AGONY. We find each day difficult to live. And yet we don't want to die as we have responsibilities to our loved ones still living. You try and go to see a grief counsellor. this will help you greatly. You will be supported whilst you are in pain. Perhaps you won't need to take your medication to cope. YOu will be coping better with help from outside your family. Your family are all suffering in their own way. You all need help as a family. But if you get help first. You will be in a healthier frame of mind to help your family and even life with your daughters may improve. Grief causes the family structure to change, and brings more problems or intensifies the ones that are already there. counselling does help! You will think differently! You will become happier. The pain of losing your son won't be so strong. It will get lighter. Go and talk also to your MALVI. (Muslim Pastor). May God help you in the days ahead.

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